Ever put your old lady in the dog house?

[Jesse]

Men get put in the dog house all the time, well for the last week ive secretly had my wife in the dog house, ive done turned her down 4 times now.:)   But women seem to not like it so much, if a man is in the dog house we deal with and move on until they forgive us.   but my wife gets really mad and she keeps mentioning divorce  and stuff.

 

i asked her why do women think its funny when they do it to us ,but women go to the extreme when their man turns them down? 

 

have you guys ever put your old ladies in the dog house?   im gonna see how far i can take this before she explodes.lol

[Dolomite`s Breezy]

I dunno..

In our house we prefer to talk about things and work them out and not withhold anything.. seems childish to me..

I never witheld anything from my husband, I grew out of playing games when I was 18..

[Guest RonB]

Run your relationship how you like...if it works for you guys...great...but I can tell you right now that wouldn't work in mine...besides...my wife and I have already had the conversation that if either of us uses the word "divorce" other than signing the papers....then we will be signing the papers...

 

That word has too much of a negative connotation and in this case...appears to used as leverage from one party to the next...neither my wife or I do well with threats and ultimatums.

 

Good luck.

[MacGyver]

You're playing with fire at best...

[NRA]

but the make up *#x is always the best

[Guest sL1k]

If your saying you have "turned her down" in the way i think you mean. Your probably the only male in history that has done that once much less 4 times. No good can come of this as Mac said your playing with fire....  You will pay in the end. you will soon hear "am i not pretty enough for you anymore" its all downhill from there.

[R_Bert]

some things, just should be left private.

[Guest bkelm18]

some things, just should be left private.

 

This is the internet. Nobody reads the internet.

[gregintenn]

I prefer getting along well with my wife.

[RED333]

Jesse, you pulling our leg, or a DUMBA$$, you will not win.

You might think you are, but in the long run, think about it.

[Guest CCI]

I like the satisfaction of being,  "Happy, happy, happy!

[Jesse]

we do talk things out, neither of us are mad at each other, im just chosing not to do a certain thing and she cant handle it. 

 

they act like you should always want them and they control when.

[VERO1]

I did once for several weeks after we had been married a few years.  I don't even remember why now.  I do remember how much it broke my heart to see her cry and be so upset about some stupid ass power play I thought was funny at the time.  I decided to remove my head from my rectum and compromise.  Marriage is hard enough without being stupid.  This year will make 34 years for us.  I was 21 and she was 18 when we were married.   

[Motasyco]

I kind of like being in the dog house.  If my wife was there too, i wouldn't get any peace and quiet.

[Jesse]

I did once for several weeks after we had been married a few years.  I don't even remember why now.  I do remember how much it broke my heart to see her cry and be so upset about some stupid ass power play I thought was funny at the time.  I decided to remove my head from my rectum and compromise.  Marriage is hard enough without being stupid.  This year will make 34 years for us.  I was 21 and she was 18 when we were married.   

 

i know , i dont get why they get so upset at something they do to us all the time.  women shouldnt dish out games they cant handle.

[NRA]

this started off as a fun thread but now it is getting depressing

Edited January 1, 2013 by NRA

[Guest bkelm18]

i know , i dont get why they get so upset at something they do to us all the time.  women shouldnt dish out games they cant handle.

 

Sounds like you have much to learn about the opposite sex... :lol:

[Mike.357]

go screw your wife, that's an order

[LI0NSFAN]

i refused my wife once, the day after she broke my ankle. She also never freezes me out, proven by the fact she has been pregnant 4 times in 3 years.

[jtmaze]

Why would I put my wife in the doghouse. That is where the reloading bench, table saw, table sander, drill press, air compressor, lathe, and pretty much every tool known to man, I like being in the dog house keeps me happy and wife occasionally gets new furniture, bookcase, gun cabinet, ect.


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[TMF]

I'd have to comatose to deny my wife sex, and even then I'm pretty sure I could still pull it off. Chicks remember everything. If I used this as a control tool, even once, I'd be hearing about it until I was on my deathbed. Edited January 2, 2013 by TMF

[dralarms]

This is just wrong on so many levels.

[Garufa]

Women NEVER forget.  Go ahead and play your games, it will come back to haunt you years from now when you least expect it.

[DaveS]

I don't think this will fair very well for you my friend!

 

Dave S

[Jonnin]

/shrug

 

It sounds like you are headed for a divorce to me --- no matter what you do.   Even if you stop this childish "punishment" of your wife, the underlying problems that make you *want* to do this to her are the sorts that can only be overcome with love, communication, and a partnership.  If you let things go back to "normal" you will still have these same relationship problems, even if they are less out in the open.   So you either need to sit down & talk things out and figure out what the problems are and how you can work with each other, or you need to get a lawyer.

 

 

This has nothign to do with sex.  A LOT of marriages in the USA are "sexless" (less than once a month is the definition here) and function very well, and a lot of hot ones fail later on when the couple figures out all they had in common was hot blood.

Edited January 2, 2013 by Jonnin