Sounds like you've had quite a time. It is a shame, but there are more than enough folks in gun shops who seem to derive a thrill from trying to impress, or intimidate others with their supposed knowledge of firearms. I've found this type of person usually uses this tactic to try and cover the fact that they actually know very little. I, for one, never return to these type of shops. There are many fine and knowledgeable people here who can answer most questions you might have. I'd suggest you find someone on here, or at least a range that rents guns, to let you shoot a variety of guns before deciding on exactly what you want. I've bought and sold hundreds of guns, and my wife says I still don't know what I want. It sounds like you had a good experience with Bill's Outpost. I'd encourage you to return the favor and give him your business when you decide what you want.