Seriously... I just get tired of hearing the same stuff time after time. Yeah, the site gets slow from time to time. I'm extremely picky about server performance but so far the server is holding up reasonably well under the incredible load we put on it. I could tweak it for balls-out performance but as soon as I did, we'd get thrown off of the server by the hosting company for being disrespectful of the other folks who share the physical server that we're on.
The ultimate answer is a dedicated server. That answer comes with a pretty hefty pricetag. It's where we are headed, inevitably, but we're not quite there yet.
Moving to one doesn't just involve money. It also involves time, and that's something I have even less of these days. As soon as I have both of those commodities in enough supply, changes will happen. Until then, have some patience.
And for what it's worth, I have spent the past 15 years of my professional life operating as a top-tier systems engineer very profitable companies supporting extremely critical systems. I didn't fall off of the cabbage truck yesterday and I know my **** when it comes to servers.
TGO isn't mission critical and it doesn't operate with a multi-billion dollar budget, so I do the best I can with the resources we have at our disposal. Anyone who wants to write a couple-thousand dollar check to pay for better hosting and and a year's worth of bandwidth, feel free to contact me. I'll put your money to good use.