Darnluck

Ahh, I think I understand, so I need to get a male 3 lug adapter from tros or griffin or hkparts? Then I need an female adapter to convert my AAC Tirant to accept the 3 lug right?

I have done a little looking, but wonder if they exist at this point, most 9mm suppressors are direct thread

Ruger lc9s is a good option, single stack, 6-7 reds with safety, I like the trigger the best, the walther CCP is nice too. I also own g43, shield 9, sig 938, beretta nano, xds9, and kahr p9 c safety, and sccy (cheap pos)... I think you'll have to try and see yourself at the range. I tried so hard to like the shield, kahr, sig, and glock over the ruger, but just didn't shoot as well with them

I usually look at this when looking for defense ammo http://www.ar15.com/ammo/project/Self_Defense_Ammo_FAQ/index.htm

Ruger lc9s <= I like best smooth trigger s&w shield Kahr PM9 Sig 938 <= smallest

I use a desantis superfly pocket holster, and do not have any problem drawing my ruger lc9s, most of the time when I pull the holster out my pocket comes with it.

I personally like the com-tac mtac holster, but I also own a crossbreed, alien gear 2.0, n82, Glaco king tuk, and several others, the only thing I can tell you is the iwb choice is personal, and if you have access to friends who have samples of each, try it first... Otherwise you will have "the box", full of holsters that you bought but didn't quite like completely.

Fighting sheepdog might have some, they seem to have utg stuff in stock.

I use a Desantis superfly pocket holster and never had trouble with the safety disengaging